Couple’s Love Ranking Quiz

Friendship, Teamwork and Partnership = Feeling Fully Connected
1) My partner and I are equal partners, friends, lovers, and team mates*
2) We collaborate effectively and supportively in decision making, planning for our future, and enhancing our relationship*
3) My partner and I share everything with each other, openly and honestly*
4) We are best friends, are deeply connected, and are greater together as a team*

Feeling Heard and Understood
9) I am able to be completely honest in this relationship; my opinions, beliefs, and attitudes are valued*
10) Our communication is healthy, reciprocal, effective, fulfilling, and produces positive results*
11) My partner actively listens to me, does not interrupt me when I am speaking, and ensures I feel heard and understood*
12) My partner and I handle differences or conflict without escalating to fighting, arguing, or avoidance tactics. We discuss and mutually resolve small frustrations and irritations as soon as we become aware of them*

Feeling Valued and Appreciated
13) I am able to be myself in this relationship and am appreciated for who I am*
14) My partner appreciates me and what I contribute to our relationship on a daily basis*
15) My partner respects and acknowledges my feelings*
16) My partner puts me and our relationship first*
Feeling Supported and Accepted
17) My partner is supportive of me, my goals, friendships, family and other interests*
18) My partner is supportive of who I am (strengths, weaknesses, quirks - all of me), what I want, and what I need*
19) My partner is supportive even when we disagree*
20) My partner soothes me when I am anxious, tense, annoyed or inflated*

Empathic Listening and Follow Through
21) My partner and I understand that listening does not include making and keeping agreements; therefore, we regularly make requests of each other and follow through on our agreements*
22) My partner follows through on their commitments and agreements, indicative of a high level of integrity*
23) My partner renegotiates agreements and expectations when necessary to avoid being out of integrity*
24) My partner listens effectively, asks clarifying questions to ensure mutual understanding while confirming they were listening*

Creating Common Ground
25) My partner and I are skilled in finding agreement or common ground, especially in the midst of disagreement*
26) My partner and I have equal levels of giving and receiving in this relationship*
27) We are in alignment about key issues such as finances, raising children, morals/ethics, values and infidelity*
28) My partner does not push to get their own way and instead takes both of our perspective into consideration so that we can meet in the middle in decision making and planning*

Being Trusted, Trusting, and Trustworthy
29) I trust my partner to be honest with me about everything*
30) I trust my partner to be sexually faithful at all times*
31) I trust my partner to honor my feelings and our relationship where friends and family matters are concerned*
32) I trust my partner with money and financial concerns*

Balancing Individuality with Couple-Dom
37) We are able to retain our individuality and identity in this relationship*
38) I am supported to pursue my own interests, activities, and friendships in this relationship*
39) I support my partner's need to pursue their own interests, activities, and friendships*
40) We support each other's need for together time and individual alone time*

Emotional Security
41) I feel physically safe and secure in this relationship*
42) I feel emotionally secure in this relationship*
43) I can see myself growing old, taking care of each other, and being happy and fulfilled in this relationship*
44) We seek emotional support from each other when we need it and receive it when needed*

Financial Security
45) I feel financially safe and secure in this relationship. *
46) Money is not used as a method to control me or each other in this relationship. I can make investments in my personal and professional development without retribution. I can spend money on household and personal needs without a fight.*
47) I have healthy weekly or monthly financial planning and goal setting meetings with my partner; therefore, we are in alignment about money*
48) I am treated as an equal partner in the financial planning and goal setting in this relationship regardless of who earns what*

Spiritual Security
49) I feel supported and secure with my spiritual beliefs in this relationship*
50) My partner and I can talk about our spiritual beliefs with each other without he need to push, control, change, or sway each other*
51) My spiritual beliefs are respected even if my partner does not understand them*
52) I feel free to explore my spirituality privately or with my partner as I choose*

Healthy Boundaries - Family and Friends
53) We are free parental control or overbearing influence in our relationship*
54) We have healthy and mutually agreed upon boundaries with our friends and family members*
55) My partner and I are free to create our own traditions or family rituals separate from our family of origin*
56) We are free from the bonds of family of origin expectations, obligations, and restrictions*

Romance, Intimacy, and Sex
57) Romance, intimacy, and sex is healthy in our relationship; we talk about our sexual, intimacy, and romantic needs*
58) I honor the need and make time for romance, intimacy, and sex in this relationship*
59) I have and honor an agreement with my partner on the frequency with which we will connect sexually and intimately*
60) I don't close myself to being intimate with my partner; I welcome and initiate romantic gestures and intimate moments*

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Friendship, Teamwork and Partnership = Feeling Fully Connected