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Meet Dr. Dar

 

Dr. Dar - Darshana Hawks

Relationship Expert & Coach, Heart Healer, Communication Facilitator, Mediator, Author, Loving Wife, and Speaker

Dr. Dar, Relationship and Communication Problem Solver

Greetings Love Seekers,

I am Dr. Dar (Darshana Hawks) and I am a happy wife, Master Relationship Coach for Singles and Couples, Spiritual Counselor, Educator, Mediator, daughter, sister, business owner, author, speaker, student, quilter, jewelry maker, cook, reader, dog lover, traveler, foodie, friend, and sooo much more.  

Dr. Dar – History

For a bit of my history leading me to becoming a Relationship Coach, check out this podcast from my Ask Dr. Dar radio show Meet Dr. Dar.  

I am passionate about relationships and believe that healing relationships at home and at work can heal this planet.  Love not war – and no I was not born early enough to be a flower girl in the 60's.  

Now for a smidgeon of humble gloating:

Dr. Dar – Accomplishments

I am pretty excited about the launch of my first book, Stop Being Single Now, this year.  You should check it out as it now on Amazon – I am excited to get it in the hands of Singles worldwide who yearn for a loving relationship and would love your help in telling the world!  Would you be so kind as to help me reach the best seller list on Amazon by purchasing the book and telling all your friends to do the same?

My Story

I learned about love, being loved, un/healthy relationships, communication and intimacy the hard way...let's just say I had lots of practice.  As early as the age of 9 I knew that I wanted something different in love and marriage than what my parents had (it worked for them)...I was born into a South Asian culture but raised in Western countries and exposed to other ways of being.  As a teenager, I started observing singles and couples...relationships, love, intimacy, dating, or any related topic was not discussed in our household...I also did not observe any physical affection such as hugging, expressing love verbally, or loving kisses as a child - just a difference in culture and generations.  I knew I wanted something different.

In my early 30's, in despair and down in the dumps because I had more break ups than I could count...In the midst of my breakdown I had an epiphany.  I realized I had a pattern of attracting the wrong men for me!  I chose to look at ways that I had been successful in other areas of my life and instead began to focus on what I wanted so that I could attract the love of my life. The result of this quest is my book Stop Being Single Now...Within 6 weeks of writing the book, I attracted my husband to whom I have now been married for 12+ happy, connected, loving, supportive, intimate, and BFF years.

Yep - Iittle did I know I had embarked on my future career and passion of solving relationship struggles, communication problems, and assisting couples in saving their marriage/relationship as I was experiencing some of the very same struggles you have experienced.

Another amazing accomplishment of which I am extra proud: I am the featured relationship expert for the Fox Television Affiliate in Charlotte (you can watch me every Friday morning at 8:00 a.m. E.T. or on youtube) and also have been featured on WBT Radio.  I also host my own Ask Dr. Dar radio show where we talk about my favorite subject, Relationships! 

I am now working on the companion book to Stop Being Single Now and will start Save Your Marriage Now some time next year.  

I offer workshops, private coaching sessions, media contributions, speak at events, all with the intention of making an impact on singles and couples to connect to the love within them so that they can love and allow themselves to be fully loved.

Dr. Dar – My Coaching Philosophy:  

Learning what you want when it comes to love and your relationships and partnering with you as we travel towards your desired outcomes in life and love is my joy.  My coaching philosophy is to honor who you are as a perfect, whole and complete being of energy and light.  My coaching approach is to meet you right where you are with compassion and understanding.  Together we will take a look at areas that work well in your life, celebrating fully your contribution and success in those areas.  We also review with ease the areas in love, dating, and relationships that aren't quite aligned with what you want and are unfulfilling.  Together, we identify the ingredients that result in what works for you and leverage those same ingredients in the areas that need some attention and love.  We  align what you say you want with who you are, how you show up, your mind, heart, body and spirit as evidenced by the results you produce in life and love.  You will shift from mind based relationships to heart based relationships creating much deeper and fulfilling connections for you and your circles.

I love-love-love connecting single, couples, and families to heart based being, loving, living, communicating and thinking resulting in a more fulfilling life experience.  I  am deeply committed to your success in life, love, communication, and relationships.

What distinguishes my approach:  

  • I move in with couples to save their marriage, or restore love and peace in their relationship or household.  My Weekend “live-in” marriage interventions have dubbed me as the “Super Marriage Nanny for Couples” by my clients, because I do actually spend a weekend in the homes of couples who are serious about saving their relationships.  Hundreds of marriages since 1999 have literally been saved as a direct result of the intimacy, connection, and breakthroughs achieved under Dr. Dar's compassionate, trusted, and skilled guidance.

  • I used to be a love seeking single until the age of 34.  I know what it's like to desire being loved and wanting love in life.  Since I uncovered the steps to find love that resulted in me finding my husband and having a happy and successful marriage, I am very committed to bringing that knowledge to other love seeking singles world wide.  

  • Unlike so many other relationship experts, Dr. Dar is in a very successful long-term marriage that proves her principles work.  It is important to me to walk my talk.  I put my words into action in my own life.

  • You will not get videos or tons of emails pushing my products and services.  You will get helpful information with some accompanying information about a complimentary product or service.  I am growing weary of internet marketers and sales people pushing their wares so incessantly and I can only imagine you are as well.  Instead, I give you the options to choose whether or not you want to go deeper, further, and continue to work with me.  Empowering you to choose is more important than pushing you to purchase.  I also make myself available for conversation and relationships – so if you have any questions or would like to know or understand more about any topic, product, or service, give me a ring or send me anemail, I do respond. 

More about my history:

I wanted something more as a teen in the United States after moving to Georgia from the U.K. and prior to that, Zambia, Africa.  My parents envisioned a secure life through an arranged marriage.  I instead wanted a best friend who would bring out the best in me with understanding, compassion, mutual love, connection, communication, intimacy and acceptance.  I followed my own “Stop Being Single Now” advice and manifested the love of my life, Chuck Hawks, to whom I have been happily married for 11+ years.

Dr. Dar credentials:

I have been on a life-long experiential study of relationships and I have come to this conclusion:  everyone has the same basic needs when it comes to relationships – a need for belonging, to feel safe, for comfort, to understand and be understood, to be accepted, and to love and be loved.  I've invested decades of training and experience to guide clients to achieve their relationship goals.  I'm a Master Licensed Relationship Coach for Singles and Couples, Certified Spirit in Business Coach, Certified Life Coach, Certified Transformation Game Facilitator, a Spiritual Counselor, and a Certified DDI Facilitator.  Dr. Dar earned her MBA in E-commerce and her PhD in philosophy.  I also earned a PMI (PMP) Certification.  

Now for the fun part – time to Engage with Dr. Dar – Why Wait a Moment Longer?  

  1. Take the LOVE QUIZ 
  2. Contact Dr. Dar for private coaching, workshops, quantity book purchases, speaking engagements, media appearances, engagements for your upcoming conference or workshop, or ideas or guests for the Ask Dr. Dar Radio Show.

 for immediate needs call (704) 651-8568  or email: contact @ DrDar (dot) com

LOVE AND BE LOVED!

 

More Ways to Engage 

  1. Benefit from Dr. Dar’s free Love Quizzes and subscribe to the Daily Love Note for inspiration - visit www.DrDar.com.

  2. Get in touch for private couples, singles, or family coaching solutions, relationship problem solving, or communication and conflict fixes. 

  3. Choose from workshops, retreats, group circles, private coaching, or enjoy the abundant information posted to www.DrDar.com and youtube.com

  4. Connect to discuss quantity book purchases, schedule speaking engagements for your upcoming conference or workshop, or arrange media interviews.

 call (980) 428-6327  or email: info @ DrDar (dot) com